Sunday, September 23, 2007

Introducing Asher Helaman



Here he is! Asher Helaman at 5 hours old. He's so cute! He was born at 5:05 a.m. on Friday the 21st, weighed 7lbs. 6 oz. and was 21 1/2 inches long. I think he looks a lot like McKenzie, but also has something all his own (although this picture actually makes him look more like Jason and Ethan). He loves being held - he slept beautifully last night when he was cuddled up next to Jason.

So the plan was to be induced Friday morning. I spent Thursday working all day to finish last minute things, taught piano lessons and then took McKenzie and Ethan to Elisa's (thank you Elisa and Bruce!!!). I hadn't eaten since lunch and was ready to eat and sleep real good before the big day. As I started on my way home from Elisa's house my doctor called and said that he didn't think it would happen Friday because I was pretty far down on the list to be induced. But, if I came in that night, he had arranged with the hospital to induce me if I wanted to. Whoa! Not ready.......but SO ready! There was no way I could wait another few days or a week! I called Jason who had had a long 14 hour day at work himself and starting to feel a little sick. He was on his way home and gave the "o.k." He got home and vacuumed out the jeep and put the carseat in. I got home and showered real quick and then we were off! We got to the hospital at 10:30 p.m. Poor Jason had to try to get some sleep on one of those hard high-centered so-called "recliners" while I snoozed on a luxurious bed with warm right-out-of-the-dryer blankets and plush pillows between contractions and popcycles (and then even during contractions after the beloved epidural). Jason jokes around with me that the labor and delivery was a lot worse for him than for me. Shhhhh......don't tell him, but I don't think that's far from truth. In fact, my most uncomfortable moment must have been the shocking realization, as Jason's chair slowly reclined - *tension building* - and then suddenly came to a shrieking hault, that THAT was the position he was required to sleep in for the night. Are you kidding me? Was this an innocent designer flaw or someone's cruel and sinister plan? Poor guy! But, we're all home and happy and doing great and slowly trying to catch up on sleep. It's so nice to have Asher here! I'm exhausted, but too excited to sleep as much as I should. I love snuggling with him and staring at him. But, I better go take a nap anyway.......enjoy the pics!



Is there a way this could be less comfortable? Of course, believing that it must be someone's deliberate devilish design, I'm sure they explored every uncomfortable option and only
provided these new fathers with the best. (Well, at least they're good at what they do).



Meanwhile......back at my bed.....Listen up, ladies! Your hospital stay is your Spa Day. This is definitely a time to celebrate! How many times in your life do you get waited on hand and foot with the push of a button? It's the scenerio we mothers often dream about - made a reality at every new birth of a beautiful child. Live it to it's fullest. It won't happen often enough. It's a time to bring a huge stash of your favorite treats and eat them with complete abandon. If you want chocolate milk at dinner instead of regular 1%, speak up and be counted for. If you want more saltines with your percocet, ask them kindly to "bring a towering stack next time". Sad will be the days when this event will no longer be in my future.


I was seriously worried how Ethan would react, being a Momma's boy and just having entered the "hitting stage" with flying colors........but, he couldn't have been cuter with Asher, tickling him so gently ("ticko, ticko, ticko") and brimming over with excitement to see this little person. He wanted to hold him so bad right away. We have it on video and it's priceless!


McKenzie could hardly contain her excitement as well. She's in love with him! But, when it was Ethan's turn to hold Asher, she was quite concerned that Ethan would "squash him". She's going to be quite the protective little mother.


What a cute little family, if I do say so myself. What's better than this?
Nothing.

21 comments:

simplycreating said...

Yea! Welcome to the world Asher! He is so cute and cuddly and everything a baby should be. I loved the pictures, thanks for posting so soon. You look great are you sure you just gave birth? I'm so glad you didn't have to wait this one out and got to even have him a couple of hours early! Congrats to the whole family. Love you guys:o)

Jake and Annika said...

Congratulations! What a cutie! A complete Stanger if you ask me. I loved reading every single little bit of this post! Next time we get one here I'll have to remember to soak up my time at the hospital "day spa". Love you! Congrats, again!

Teresa said...

He is adorable Amy! I can't wait to see him in person. I love the picture of you with your treats!
What a neat time of life.
Love ya,
Aunt Teresa

Lindsey Ricks Benedict said...

Congratulations!

we can't wait to see you all

Lindsey Ricks Benedict said...

I have not ever heard child birth described as a spa day, but well noted for the future. ; ) Congratulations!! Asher is adorable as well as big brother and sister! We love you!
Linds

ps the other note was from Uncle T.

Melissa said...

Congratulations. You truly make me want to be a great mom. Good luck to your whole family. We love and miss you guys a lot.

Adam, Melissa, & Morgan Dean

Julie said...

Oh you guys he's perfect! Congratulations. Welcome back to the world of sleepless nights. :)

Hopefully you've recovered from your "ordeal" Jes . . .

Rachel said...

Yeah! We're so glad that he's here! Very cute too. I love the family picture and the ones with Ethan and Kenzie with Asher. Yes, Jason your picture of the bed finally does justice to your phone description. Maybe just bring in your own inflatable air mattress next time:)

Jason, Tiffany, and the Crew said...

Welcome Asher! You are adorable! Amy, I am laughing and crying at the same time...what a WONDERFUL time for your family! We are so happy for you all, and can't wait to meet that little Asher man! Love you! Tiffany

Rachel said...

Yea! Congrats you two! He is a doll! You look so good Amy and I hope you enjoyed your "spa day!" Hahah, that is totally me with mounds of chocolate all around me after I deliver. I love it! We miss you guys!!

jaredelizabeth said...

I'm so happy for you. Not only do you have a beautiful new baby, but YOU ARE NOT PREAGNANT ANYMORE! Yay! Have fun with the new baby and sleeping on your stomach if you so choose.

Julie said...

I just had to come back to your blog today and take another peek.

Humm - what a yummy baby!

elonna said...

Congrats! You are so amazing. You could make anyone want to have the same experience (no complaining and making it seem like a spa!) I think it is great! How could I think differently, Asher was born on my birthday so now I will remember his birthday! What a great day to come to earth. Love Ya!

Lindsey Ricks Benedict said...

13+ comments for having a baby, geez louise maybe we should have a baby so we can get 13+ comments.

Lindsey Ricks Benedict said...

Oh and I almost forgot, I'll bring the little guy his congratulatory beef jerky at Christmas.

T

and that makes 15

Bruce said...

So I keep coming and looking at littles Asher, but I just realized today that I haven't commented yet! I love this little guy already and I've only seen him once! I need to come hold him again.

Amy said...

It helps to get a lot of comments if you add your own. What a cute little guy! Thank you! You're welcome.

Julie said...

Alright, not to get pushy or anything, but you guys are hogging him . . .

need more photos ASAP (in your spare time of course :)

Love you!
J.

Ashley said...

Wow... you really do have a bunch of comments! I really want to make comment number 20 though...

Ashley said...

Hurray! Comment number 20!!!
This is my comment:
So, I was looking at your pictures and realizing... usually when kids play all summer they get darker, but it looks like yours get whiter!? How does that work!? :) jk. I can't wait to see you this weekend!!!!!!!!!!

The Petrini Post said...

Wow...your pregnancy went so fast...at least for me it did! Congrats on the baby boy! He's so cute and does look a lot like your husband! I hope all is well and I'm sorry we were not able to get together when I was in town. It might be another year before I make it back. It's hard traveling from on side of the nation to the other with kids....uugh. Anyway, you look great! Take care!
Melissa